PERSONAL PERFORMANCE COACHING

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MY STORY

If you've begrudgingly made it to this page because you stumbled across a link for one more person claiming to be a "life coach"… Or maybe we met in person and you're here out of sheer curiosity…

Either way, you can relax. I'm not going to flaunt a list of bestselling books with AI-generated titles or a résumé of global speaking engagements built around selling a course.

I'm a lot more like you than you probably expect, and I approach what I do with the same level of honesty.

Most of the people I work with don't have a problem with motivation, and if you're still reading this, I can say with certainty you don't either.

What's lacking is direction, clarity, and knowing what to get motivated about in the first place.


Maybe you've just graduated, quit a job, or you're about to. Maybe you're deep in a career that looks right on paper but feels hollow in practice. Or maybe something stopped you, an injury, a loss, a moment where the version of yourself you were building toward suddenly felt out of reach.

The shape of it is different for everyone yet the feeling underneath tends to be the same.

One way or another, the pressure is on. It feels like you're expected to pick a lane while you've been barreling down the shoulder this entire time.

I say that because that was me just over a year ago.

Rolling down the shoulder of my own highway, no GPS (game plan), no seatbelt (accountability), under the influence (that one's just the truth)…

Taking every exit I could, hoping something would stick, thinking I'd arrive at some fulfilling destination while never having decided where I was actually trying to go in the first place.

It was inevitable I'd crash.

And I did. Not metaphorically.

Sean in a neck brace after breaking his neck

I moved to Los Angeles after college to pursue directing and screenwriting. That evolved into a passion for stunt work, which, combined with the lifestyle I just described, left me with both a broken sense of self, and a broken neck.

Sean directing on set Sean performing a stunt mid-air

For me, it took coming to terms with the idea that I might have lost my life before everything finally snapped into focus, and that experience forced me to start asking different questions.

Not just what should I do next, but why was I thinking the way I was in the first place?

Why did clarity feel so temporary? And why does so much of the guidance around "finding your purpose" feel vague, recycled, or completely disconnected from reality?

In my humble opinion, it's because it is.


Unless you're willing to do the work, to actually look inward and arrive at answers on your own terms, no piece of strategically packaged advice is going to break the pattern.

That's what led me here: neuroscience and psychology at Harvard Extension School, certificates in positive psychology and human behavior, a master's degree in progress, and executive coaching training through the ACT Leadership program at Brown University. The science matters to me, not as a credential flex, but because understanding how people actually think is the whole job.

Coaching can mean a lot of different things, and the skepticism around it isn't unwarranted. But having worked with a coach myself, there's no real argument that navigating everything alone is the more effective approach.

It's become a mission of mine to make sure others don't have to find out what's below rock bottom before deciding to change.


If you're looking for surface-level motivation or a one-and-done framework, this probably isn't for you.

But if you want to understand how you think, why you make the decisions you do, and actually move forward with direction, we should talk.

My discovery calls are completely free, just a chance to ask questions and get a feel for how I work.

If you want results, I look forward to talking.

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HOW IT WORKS

A conversation with direction.

01

You bring the topic.

There's never a rigid agenda. I am there to best serve you. You show up with what's on your mind, a decision you're stuck on, a pattern you keep repeating, a goal that isn't moving.

02

We go deeper.

Most people arrive with a surface-level problem that's pointing at something they've yet to acknowledge. As we talk, we get underneath it, prioritizing awareness of what's actually in the way and why.

03

You leave with a plan.

Awareness without direction is just reflection. Every session ends with something actionable. A clear next step, a decision, or a framework for moving forward. My priority above all else is results.


I'll let you be the judge, but where I like to differentiate myself is in my flexibility with this framework. Sessions are informed by neuroscience and psychology, not as a talking point, but as a practical lens for understanding how you actually think, make decisions, and resist change.

Given my passion for the science of human behavior, I find that when you understand the mechanics behind your own patterns, the path forward becomes a lot less abstract. That's the difference between being told what to do and actually understanding why it works.

That said, I'll keep a muzzle on standby, my own bad habit of getting carried away with this side of the job is not uncommon.


This is coaching, not therapy. The distinction matters. Therapy is invaluable, but it tends to focus on processing the past. This work is oriented around the present and forward. If you're looking to understand how you think so you can make better decisions and move with more intention, you're in the right place. If you're navigating something that requires clinical support, I'll always be honest about that too.

I like to say, coaching is not therapy, but it can be therapeutic.


Sessions are one hour, held weekly or bi-weekly depending on what works for you. Less frequent schedules can be arranged. Everything happens over a video call.

If you're still unsure whether this is the right fit for you, I'll reiterate the discovery call is completely free, and I'd be happy to answer any questions or concerns, always aiming to personalize the process as much as possible depending on the situation.

There's only so much circling you can do before you get dizzy. Start moving.


FAQ

A structured conversation designed to help you develop clarity on where you are, what's in the way, and how to move forward. It's not advice-giving, it's asking the right questions until you arrive at your own answers.

Therapy focuses on understanding and processing the past. This work is oriented around the present and forward. Both are valuable. I'm not here to diagnose or treat anything. I'm here to help you get unstuck and take action. I like to say coaching is not therapy, but it can be therapeutic.

The bar to call yourself a coach is practically nonexistent, and the industry has a reputation problem because of it. My approach is grounded in formal training, active academic study, and real personal experience. The discovery call exists so you can decide for yourself before committing to anything.

If you had everything figured out, you wouldn't need a coach (though that expectation is an arrival fallacy in itself). The only prerequisite is a genuine willingness to do the work.

Depends what you mean by "work." It's not uncommon to feel a shift in perspective after a single call, but real change comes from consistency. This isn't a one-call fix, it's about thinking differently, making better decisions, and actually following through. What I can tell you is that no session ends without something concrete to act on, and that momentum tends to compound over time.

If you're expecting someone to fix your life for you, no. But if you're willing to show up and do the work, the cost of staying stuck tends to be higher than people account for. The discovery call is free and there's no pitch waiting at the end of it.

A conversation, not an intake form. We get oriented, understand what you want to focus on, and most importantly see if we're a good fit. Not everybody meshes with my style or approach, and if you don't feel we resonate on some level, I'd be the first to suggest seeking coaching elsewhere.

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DIRECTION

Coaching for people navigating what comes next, whether that's after graduation, a career pivot, or a phase of life where nothing feels like it fits yet.

Career Coaching Life Transition Guidance Student & Graduate Support

I help students and young professionals find direction and clarity in the practical, what-do-I-actually-do-with-my-life sense, through structured sessions grounded in neuroscience, values work, and real accountability.


For those of you reading this section in particular, I think it's fair to assume you may be holding on to the most skepticism out of anybody perusing this site. You're probably anywhere from your teens to late twenties, already stimmed out from the deep work (doom scrolling) sessions you've done today, and the last thing you want to read is some preachy self-help talk from somebody in your same age bracket. That I respect wholeheartedly. Whether you're a student or recent graduate, I know you've sat through enough recycled advice about following your passion, applying to the right jobs, and trusting the process to last a lifetime. I won't beat a dead... life coach.

That said, I'm still in this line of work to be of utmost service to those in a position I related to years prior. What I focus on with students and graduates is direction and clarity, not in the abstract sense, but in an actionable one. In practice that looks like:

  • Identifying your core values and what it actually means to live in alignment with them, not just know them.
  • Building new habits in a way that's consistent with how the brain actually works, because trying to simply eliminate old ones is a losing battle by design.
  • Exploring which paths align with your genuine interests and desires, and how to frame those as real, actionable directions rather than distant ideals.
  • Understanding how all of the above converge on purpose, not as some fixed destination you either find or don't, but as something that evolves as you do.

You wouldn't ever leave a session with some sort of vague sense of inspiration. You'll leave with something concrete to act on.

I know better than anybody that at this stage of life, momentum and inertia (a concept I can dive deeper into) matters more than perfection, and getting moving in the right direction matters more than having it all figured out.


I've spent my entire life, especially throughout college, never satisfied simply going through the motions. I partook in my fair share of the "college experience", and given my long standing relationship with a girl named Mary Jane, I'd consider my brain a statistical anomaly given how it's functioning.

Looking back, I realize most of my actions were in pursuit of a kind of numbness. Underneath everything, I desperately wanted to align with a purpose and had no idea what that looked like, let alone meant. I was addicted to the mental stimulation of self help content, motivational videos, and at times had more one way conversations with David Goggins than with my family. I was convinced that in order to be great at something, it took an incalculable level of obsession, and on top of that flawed perspective, I didn't even know what that 'thing' was for me.

That ultimately threw me into a constant cycle of hobby hopping. SMMA gurus and digital marketing. Real estate. Bodybuilding. Personal training. Interning for a home healthcare agency. DJing. Eventually film, screenwriting, and then the brief but formative chapter of stunt work in LA. Each one genuinely pursued, none of them feeling quite right, and yet all of them somehow pointing me toward where I am now.

I don't regret any of it. That's what living is. But I also know now that there are ways to circumvent the weeks and months spent wallowing in confusion, not acting in accordance with your values, and mistaking movement for direction. When you leave a structure like school, the gap between self pity and self actualization becomes wider than it's ever been, and more than anything I want to help people find themselves on the right side of that canyon.

The discovery call is free, with no time limit. Just a conversation.

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INJURY RECOVERY

Coaching for athletes and active individuals navigating the mental side of injury, the part no physical therapist, surgeon, or recovery timeline accounts for.

Mental Recovery Coaching Identity & Confidence Rebuilding Athlete Support

I help people process what an injury actually costs beyond the body, the identity shift, the loss of momentum, the fear of what comes next, and come out of it with more clarity than they had going in.


Dealing with an injury is no small feat and chances are if you've found yourself on this page you're in the thick of it. Maybe you're an athlete sitting out a season. Maybe you're an active person whose routine, identity, and sense of normalcy got pulled out from under you overnight. Or maybe you're just going through an unexpected injury, and while the physical part is healing on schedule, something still feels profoundly off.

That's not weakness. That's just part most people don't have a protocol for.

The mental side of injury recovery is not just a supplement to the physical process, it is an equal and necessary part of it. In practice that looks like:

  • Navigating identity loss and using the forced pause as an opportunity to build a stronger, clearer sense of self than existed before the injury.
  • Reframing what can feel like grief into what it actually is — an opportunity for real growth that most people never get because they never have to slow down enough to do it.
  • Learning how to re-engage with life, whether on or off the field, with a heightened sense of confidence rather than a fear of re-injury or aggravation.
  • Building the mental framework to come out of this experience not just intact, but genuinely stronger in ways that outlast the recovery itself.

This isn't about staying positive or pushing through. It's about doing the actual work that the physical timeline doesn't account for, so that when your body is ready, your mind already is too.


Injuries are always a tough subject. Claiming that one person's experience is worse than another's is entirely relative to the person and the context, and I want to be clear that I don't approach this work with any kind of hierarchy of suffering. That said, I'm no rookie to recovery. I've managed to rack up several near death experiences, a broken arm, two broken wrists (at once), a tailbone injury that ended a basketball season early, and quite a few hits directly to the dome. I thought I had a reasonable relationship with the fragility of the human body… then I quite literally broke my neck.

Two vertebrae and several severely torn ligaments, during a regular day of stunt training. The accident came as unexpectedly as the surgery required immediately after. I'd be lying if I said it doesn't feel slightly badass to know I have two metal plates fusing my spine together, but that doesn't take away from knowing that in that moment, I had the rug pulled out from under me in every facet of my life. My dream of becoming a pioneering stuntman was shattered and the life I had been building looked completely unattainable. Five months in a neck brace, eight months avoiding loud noises so I wouldn't get startled, and waking up tense every morning to this day, all serve as a reminder of how quickly everything can change.

All the systems for healing my body were in place, the surgeons, the physical therapists, the timeline, yet nobody had a plan for the rest of it. I had to approach my mental recovery entirely on my own, and I knew that if I didn't do that work, it wouldn't matter whether my body fused back together, I'd remain broken on some level. Fortunately I did, and I realize the blessing in disguise that it was.

That experience is the reason I take this work as seriously as I do — because I know firsthand what it costs to navigate the part nobody has a protocol for, and I know what's possible on the other side of it.

Unless you've experienced an injury to your fingers, don't hesitate to book a free call.

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EXECUTIVE PERFORMANCE & LEADERSHIP

Coaching for professionals and leaders who want to sharpen how they think, decide, and lead. Not through advice, but through deeper self-awareness.

Executive Coaching Leadership Development High-Performance Mindset

I help leaders and professionals become more intentional under pressure through structured sessions rooted in neuroscience, behavioral psychology, and an executive coaching framework trained at Brown University.


If you're reading this after having explored the rest of my website and my apparent age evoked some hesitancy, that's a fair and reasonable reaction. I'd rather address it directly than dance around it. What I do doesn't require decades of industry experience, and I don't claim to have the strategic answers to your business decisions or financial planning. That's not what this is.

My priority is coaching the person and their relationship to their topic, not the topic itself. I'm not here to tell you what decisions to make. I'm here to help you become more aware of how you're making them, what's getting in the way, and what it would look like to make them with more clarity, confidence, and intention. In practice that looks like:

  • Exploring the values, patterns, assumptions, and limiting beliefs that show up in your professional environment and inform how you lead.
  • Strengthening your awareness of how you think and feel in high pressure or high stakes situations, so that your responses are intentional rather than reactive.
  • Improving how you communicate, motivate, and support the people around you, because how you lead ripples further than most leaders realize.
  • Addressing specific challenges as they arise, whether that's navigating a difficult conversation, managing decision fatigue, or stepping into a new level of responsibility.

The process is always grounded in results. Sessions lead to clear action steps, not just insight. The goal is that whatever gets worked through translates into something practical and immediately applicable.


My entry into executive performance and leadership coaching came through formal training with one of the more dense and detailed programs in this space, affiliated with Brown University. The framework I was trained in is built around raising awareness of how a person relates to their circumstances, rather than prescribing what to do about them. That inside-out approach is what separates this kind of coaching from mentorship or company-specific leadership development, both of which tend to work from the outside in.

My active studies in neuroscience and psychology at Harvard Extension School also aid in my perspective of how people think, make decisions, and lead under pressure. This lens is something I bring into every session, not as a talking point, but as a science based perspective that guides my approach to exploring someone's performance and how it can be improved.

I'll be straightforward with you. This is the niche where I lean most heavily on my training and my genuine curiosity, rather than my personal experience in the corporate world. What I can offer is a fresh perspective, the right questions, and a process that has been proven to move the needle regardless of the industry or the role. If that sounds like something worth exploring, the discovery call is the right place to start.

The discovery call is free, with no time limit. Just a conversation.

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